Emotional intelligence as a Valentine’s day
Every moment of Valentine’s day, I on the eve of think of Valentine’s day a few years since he screams the map links and gift-shop, where he some night, had chosen Valentin while cursing the materialism which dictates Avenue on the expression of the emotions with boxes of candy for us by the Madison is called, and the show had no “honey” at this moment, altogether for cards in serve and not have received the latest Valentine, how he spends too much or too little was and wanted to know whether my child be my granddaughter, you choose a card for me to remember…
… Owner of a store called, “be careful driving, Susan.” There are many lovers angry out there on the road. ”
“Valentine” comes again and with the same feelings. It is also one day, can you, and if you that think you think matches with their IQ and CO2.
DECLARATION OF INTENT
How do you want to be your Valentine? Goal is to say, what he wants to say and say what you say and mean for their actions and their motives is responsible and accountable.
If your goal is clearly your love for someone, you can imagine how you express love; A toaster oven is possible, would be greatly appreciated, wrote a poem, a kiss on the cheek, a supplement to the collection of instrument of power, too gushy gushy or not, a night of dance or not to use something, no money, since both the budget.
At the same time, to manage their feelings?
If it is a honest look at the situation, we certain intentions, you must:
 · is his anger about what will happen?  if you are alone, that you “want to get you let it”?  · want disappointed to be that her lover gives you is not enough?  · want to keep your expectations in the test of reality?  · Give expression to their needs, because we can not your thoughts read, no matter how much you love?  · want more to spend than you can afford it, and then a bad conscience?  · You want to compare or give gift to others?  · Wishes, your gift to his wife despite head, lead name agreement negative feelings for you?  · want to go for you or not the other person, “to” Valentine, personally to take part in the selection of the gift?  · wants to be a perfectionist and feels that no matter what you buy is wrong, and regardless, what you do is right?
It is not the purpose of loving and enjoy your day!
Intention is a durable material, and that means Ernst.
ACCOUNTABILITY
At the pragmatic level, there are things that have to do. If you want to see the day referring to more than one person
 ·Print your budget ·Create a list of people who you want to remember ·Ideas for each person to write ·Forget any large number of suppliers, the it easier for you, “to the Internet and telephone ·” want to you Microassembly early to avoid the pressure ·Plans of all last-minute “Special” for the way way you deliberately, that it can afford, to resist
Valentine’s day countdown calendar falls on a Friday of this week. This is something that you need to know. This means that can you a flower arrangements at the last minute and that means that the restaurants are absolutely at night, and baby sitting can be difficult to achieve. Good plan!
Planning is the key to the experience the joy of Valentine’s day. It’s your day and you do can get your way!
